Can You Manifest Love? Hope, Choice and Realistic Dating

Can You Manifest Love? Hope, Choice and Realistic Dating

Can you manifest love? If you mean making a particular person fall in love with you, or guaranteeing that a partner will arrive, an intention cannot do that. If you mean clarifying your hopes and choosing how to approach dating, reflection can give you something...
Making Changes When Life Feels Out of Your Control

Making Changes When Life Feels Out of Your Control

Wanting more say in your life is understandable when plans keep being interrupted or responsibilities feel overwhelming. You may be able to change a particular action, ask for support or reconsider a commitment. You cannot control every outcome, another person’s...
Using the Water Element for Change

Using the Water Element for Change

People have a strong connection with nature and with the world around them. Sometimes moods change as the weather changes or when you eat certain foods because your body knows what you need and what you are putting into it. The body is made of a lot of the elements,...
Talking to Your Guides and Getting Help

Talking to Your Guides and Getting Help

Some people do not even realize that they have spirit guides and some people that know that they have spirit guides do not have any idea on how to communicate with them. They get messages and they listen to them, but they never know how to talk back or to tell the...
Supporting an Unhappy Partner: Care, Choice and Limits

Supporting an Unhappy Partner: Care, Choice and Limits

When someone you love seems unhappy, you may want to fix the feeling quickly. Care can be valuable, but you cannot choose another person’s emotions or guarantee that an activity, compliment or conversation will lift their mood. Your responsibility is to treat your...
Supporting a Distressed Partner: Triggers, Choice and Boundaries

Supporting a Distressed Partner: Triggers, Choice and Boundaries

When a partner says something has triggered them, begin with what they tell you and what support they want. The word alone cannot explain the situation or establish a diagnosis. You can respond with care while keeping room for your own feelings, limits and safety....
Feeling Neglected by Your Partner: Needs, Requests and Choices

Feeling Neglected by Your Partner: Needs, Requests and Choices

Feeling neglected by a partner may mean missing conversation, practical support, affection or a reliable place in each other’s plans. Your partner may be under pressure, and you may still need something to change. Both realities can deserve attention. Begin by...
When He Says He Is Not Ready: Clarity, Limits and Choices

When He Says He Is Not Ready: Clarity, Limits and Choices

Hearing “I’m not ready for a relationship” can leave you caught between what you hoped for and what is being offered. You may want to understand whether he needs time, wants something casual or does not want to continue dating. You cannot determine every reason...
When Love Feels Compulsive: Needs, Boundaries and Support

When Love Feels Compulsive: Needs, Boundaries and Support

If thoughts about a relationship are taking over your day, you may describe yourself as “addicted to love.” Perhaps you keep checking for messages, agree to things you do not want or feel unable to step back from a painful situation. Take the distress seriously...
Letting Go: Unrequited Love

Letting Go: Unrequited Love

Unrequited love can be painful and that pain can last for days, weeks, or even years. It is important to understand how unrequited love affects us and how to get over it when necessary. Unrequited love is a love that is not shared. It is felt, usually strongly, by one...